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It
was 1989 when Meg Haney first volunteered to be a Big
Sister. She had heard about the program through a friend
and decided to give it a try. Little did she know that
her time as a big sister would span nearly 20 years.
Haney's first match was shared with
her husband, Cliff, through the agency's Couples Program.
Although it only lasted nine months, she said she felt
humbled by the experience. "My first response to
[being a Big Sister] was, "I could never do that,"
Haney said. "But you have gifts. The gift of yourself
is all they're looking for." Her second match with
Cliff was with Frank, a teen who had a knack for fishing
and enjoyed working with his Big Brother. "Frank
looked at my husband as a role model - he didn't have
a father," Haney said. "Frank later worked
with Cliff, learning the responsibilities of having
a job." Even after the near five-year match, Frank
kept in touch with his mentors. "After his graduation,
which was a big thing for him, Frank and his girlfriend
had a baby," Haney said. "That was a very
memorable time for me."
Simone
was Haney's third match - a young girl that needed an
older mentor, while time with her family was limited.
After 16 months, the match was closed, but the doors
opened for a sever-year match with a pre-teen, Micaela.
Haney remembered their time spent bowling, reading and
baking - activities that "enriched her mind,"
Haney said. Haney also said her own career in medical
care played a role in Micaela's decision to pursue a
similar field in which she still works. Ronicia was
her final match, one of over two years spent on maturing
as a young woman and having fun. Last April, their match
closed, marking nearly 20 years of service for Haney.
Having been matched five times over
the years, Meg said her greatest "gift" to
her Littles was her time. "Three hours a week is
nothing in the course of a lifetime." Haney said.
"To have that much room in your heart for a child
is amazing. My time and myself are the bests things
I've given."
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